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Tuesday, August 15, 2023

Anchored in the Chaos

Big boys and big toys!
Four outfits.  I changed my outfit 4 times in one day.  And, one of those changes had two sweater cover up options.  Does that technically make 5 outfit changes? Reflecting on the absurdity of this I've come to the realization that this week, I had time (in my mind) to change and therefore I did. These past 10 weeks have been Full. Of. Life! The only change pondering in my mind was which pair of dangly earrings would bring life to the party of my daily physique clad in my grey or navy blue Vida Missions t-shirt and jeans.

We hosted and hosted some more, three groups of youth totaling 200+, then 'we were hosted' for 10 days in PA for a retreat with EMM and two church sharing events.  Returning to CR we entered party planning mode.  In the span of 7 days we successfully accomplished a bridal shower, a civil wedding, a family vacation for 30+ people, welcoming and hosting family and friends of students, Vida220 graduation and airport runs, and Micah came home.  We breathed deep for 2 days and then it was wedding time.  The beautiful story of God's redemptive/restorative love in the wedding celebration of two of our beloved staff.  And finally yesterday ... it was a 'holiday' to celebrate Costa Rica's Mothers day so I took the day off.  

There have been many stormy, wave tossed moments in my mind over the past 10 weeks.  Organizing, buying and calculating food amounts and finances to send with teams. Praying for, welcoming, pouring into these teams and 10 days later, sending them home again. Celebrating our students and mourning the loss of their presence on base, the hug filled hellos and the tearful goodbyes while sleeping in 3 different beds in 10 days, washing countless loads of laundry after teams left, the beauty of a wedding and new beginnings and the stressful moments making sure everything was taken care of.  All the while, family life continued through every wave of these transitions ... school and vacation from school, sickness, soccer, braces, wisdom teeth extraction, and pizza movie nights.  

Dear friends, I could continue filling this blog with the organized chaos of our lives these past 10 weeks.  Lest you be swept away with the "need to/want to/don't want to" do list, let me refocus on our Anchor in the midst of these storms.  This image of a boat being tethered to an anchor has settled deep in my minds eye over these past weeks.  I am that tethered boat.  Whether drifting peacefully in the warmth of the sunset or bobbing buoyantly in the wave tossed surf, I am tethered to The Anchor. This tether used to be long and I would wander away from The Anchor for periods of time trying to keep myself afloat.  However through the maturing process, that rope has shortened by the tug of the Holy Spirit. I don't wander (in worry filled wavering) as far before the inner tug of the Holy Spirit pulls me back to the peace where my center is Anchored. 

As we graduate our students after 10 months of Vida220 we trust their tether to The Anchor has shortened as they take their next steps.  As we mentor and disciple our staff towards Jesus, we trust God and the work of His Holy Spirit to shorten their tether through daily life.  Glory to God for these life changing moments of trusting the tug on our tethers.  I encourage you to testify of His goodness and trust the Holy Spirit to use you as a vessel for others who are adrift.  

Adrift in the waves of worry? ... Anchored to His Presence ... Trust the tug on your tether.

Praises
*we found a new storage place for our furniture in PA, thanks for praying!
200+ youth from Vida Missions grew more intimate with God, got out of their comfort zones, and broadened their world view.
Safe and peaceful travel all summer long.
Life giving connections for our 10 days in PA.
Feeling loved and cared for by our MST and readjusting their roles.
A supportive community in and out of Vidanet.
Time to rest and be refreshed during the month of August.

Prayers
New church speaking engagements for our upcoming home leave.
Trust Father in fundraising so we can return to CR fully funded next February.
Healing for our weary bodies, specifically Jen's joints.
Family communication, to be slow to speak and quick to listen.
Connections and listening to HS promptings.
Micah, wisdom in a new leadership role.
Joseph, heart connections and future direction.
Jedidiah, wisdom and direction for future school options.
Adam, peace through lots of transition.
Spend time anchored to His Presence and trust the tug on our tether. 

Life on the Mountain ... enjoy the view!
This one turned double digits in the midst of Vida Missions ...
He got to celebrate 3 different times!
 
These are a few of his favorite things ...
Coffee and a fuzzy warm blanket.


A 10th birthday party complete with Mini golf in the rain!
How does one feed 140 youth, students and staff?
45 pizzas ... yes that is 45 pizzas from Little Caesars!
A taste from home! ...
Thanks Weaverland church for blessing us with the delicacy of whoopie pies!
 
Another taste of home ...
Hugs from our people at Strasburg MC!
Thanks for coming to share life with us at Casa Vidanet!
Two reasons to celebrate, 13 and 51 ...
Love celebrating with my birthday buddy!
Arrived in PA in time for dinner at Mom's ...
First things first ...
Jedidiah is officially taller than his older brother!
Cycle riding 101 ...
Stay off the front yard, watch out for cars and
please shift out of first gear!
"Random" ... nah, God ordained breakfast.
PA, CR, OH ... kindred hearts. 
Thankful for foundations that Father laid in my life 25+ years ago ...
And, the gift of our boys building a friendship! 
Thanks Aunt Slushy for some cousin connections! ...
Someday Adam will catch up to them! 
Sharing hearts, tears, laughter and life ...
God knows what my heart needs!
It wouldn't be a visit to PA without a visit to Chic-fil-A!

"Random" ... nay, God ordained evening catching with these dear ones!
When the kids are away, the adults eat ice cream!
I love how God connects our hearts!


How to end our 10 day adventure in PA ...
Sunday night soft serve at Freeze and Frizz ...

"Random" ... nah, God ordained run in with Mr. Stamp,
Jedidiah's kindergarten teacher! 
He wore (and still has) green pants that matched Jedidiah's green shoes
on the last day of kindergarten.
 
Monday night 10:30 pm arrival in CR ...
Tuesday morning 8:00 appt to have his wisdom teeth removed! 
Celebrating the bride to be ...
She's not my biological daughter ...
God connected our hearts and I love her like one!


Civil ceremony ...
We affirm and testify of God's goodness!
Vacation mode ... 
Took a ferry ride to arrive at the resort for rest and relaxation.
And finally, after 10 long months, it's time for graduation ...
Could not be more proud of these amazing students!
Trust the tug on your tether and go change the world!
Found this furry little critter at the end of our road! 
CR Mother's day ... it's a national holiday!
And the next day, they were married before God and these witnesses! 
Psalm 62:5, 8
Find rest, O my soul, in God alone; my hope comes from him. 
Trust in him at all time, O people; pour out your hearts to him for God is our refuge. 







Monday, June 12, 2023

Twirling

Celebrating Mom!
Long gone are my days of the rhythm of Swing and Country Line dance.  However, when He spoke in the tranquil peace of my Hiding Place, my attention was captured by the thought of dance once again.  I do not claim to have any grace and elegance for the part of ballerina yet this image in my mind was SO vivid I could almost picture myself in the tutu clad stance of the twirl.  As I waited for His revelation in the absurdity of yours truly in said stance, I sensed these three important details. 

#1 The Twirl.  I remember the giddiness of my pre-bringer-of-life equilibrium, spinning out of control then falling down as the world spun around me.  Rides with twists, turns and tumbles were the height of ecstasy in said era of life.  As maturity has graced my physique, the twirl - albeit at times giddy, out of control - has morphed into what some refer to as 'normal' life - parenting, work, school schedule, friends, appointments, community life, relationships, etc. 

#2 The Foundation. To twirl, one needs to have a sure foundation.  I don't claim to have an ounce of knowledge of twirling, but I can assuredly conclude that when life is twirling, my feet need to be planted on said sure foundation lest I lose balance and end up in a heap of dizzy, nauseating, confusion.  In keeping up with the twirl, if my feet are planted on The Sure Foundation, I will have a rich store of salvation and wisdom and knowledge. (Isaiah 33:6)

#3. The Focus.  To avoid a disoriented, dizzy, disaster, when said ballerina is twirling, her eyes must return to the focal point with every spin. It's like a millisecond pause, almost undetectable. From the savoriness of my morning coffee to the lusciousness of sinking into my downy abyss at end of day, with every twirl that transpires, He must be my fixed focal point. Not the next spin. Not today’s to do list. Not this week’s wheelin' and dealin'.  Not the taunting transition of life on the mission field. No, my friends, He must be my fixed focal point that grounds me in every turn of the twirl. 

Whether life twirls out of control or under controlled routine, when my millisecond pause is Jesus, amazingly my twirl looks elegant and grace-filled!  And whether I'm amid peaceful, less full life or not a second to pee before the next twirl, when I'm on my Sure Foundation there is stability and poise in my twirl.  Are your eyes averted and your twirl tilted? Take a moment to hear the music, refocus your gaze and establish your sure foundation ... Receive His peace in the midst of the twirl! 

Life on the Mountain
While Jan - May seemed quiet on the calendar, life has been full of life!  We prayed our beloved Vida220 teams through outreach and home again, hosted work teams, school groups, church retreats, family, and friends. Our laundry/workshop/El Nido area is undergoing a much-needed renovation.  We’ve taken time to linger over meals with our beloved staff and hear their hearts.  Leadership team retreat to refocus and dream.  All the planning and preparing for Vida Missions proved successful as we fleshed it out with our first group of 65 participants. Five more weeks of organized chaos await us! Micah returned from Honduras, Joseph graduated high school and completed his first year at Stevens Tech.  Jedidiah has been thriving on various worship teams and Adam has been soaking up time with friends while mom is busy!  And of course, twirling through normal life – homework, tests, projects, youth group, worship leading, major haircuts for ½ of us, weekly video calls with Joseph in PA and Micah in Honduras, dates with Dad, Friday pizza and movie family night and relying on our Sure Foundation as we twirl through life.

Praises:
First week of Vida Missions was full of life!
Joseph HS grad and finishing 1st year of college
Jedidiah, connections with YG
Godly counselors to help us keep focus
Clear direction to remain in CR
Opportunities to share Jesus as our sure foundation
Doctors, dentists, & people who know how to care for us!

Pray with us:
**We need a new place to store our furniture in PA by end of summer! (Please reach out if you know of a place!)
Future direction for each of our boys
Healing from headaches (Jen)
Physical energy for a busy summer
God’s heart as we disciple and mentor those around us
To steady our gaze as we twirl on our Sure Foundation.
"Crew de Compras" (Shopping crew) ...
How does one buy for 105 people in 3 different teams? 
Take two friends and each one buys a huge list! 
Micah's team saying good bye to neighbors and dear friends in Honduras!
"Out of Service ... no wifi"  : )
Hugging his bible, meditating on defending his faith (in Spanish)!
Graduation day! 
How did my little brown eyed boy grow up so fast!
It's always about the muscle!

He got his cycle license ...
Why not buy a motorcycle? ... It's cheaper on gas! 

A day of laughter, fun and lots of rain ... 
Just a normal day in Costa Rica at the amusement park!

A place of rest after a busy and full senor year and first year of college!
A day of adventure with friends ... exploring Bioluminescent water! 
You'll have to imagine it ... nighttime pictures don't do it justice.
The smolder ...
This handsome young man cleans up pretty well! 
The gift of 'ropa Americana' (second hand clothing)
and finding the perfect fitting jacket and vest!
He was super excited to be invited to Homeschool Prom with friends ... 

Barefoot tree trimmer ...
At least it was him in the tree and not his 70+ year old Grandpa! 
A "little" rain doesn't scare this mighty crew ... 
even when it falls at 3 inches an hour!
The start of Vida Missions ...
Staff introductions ... I love to hear them do it in English!
Anointed worship ...
I thank my Maker, I thank my Savior, I thank God!

Kitchen crew, full of life and the joy of Jesus ... 
Sun up to sun down, twirling through the kitchen, this crew is amazing!

And this is why they're amazing ...
They start their mornings communing with Jesus, their sure foundation! 

He will be the sure foundation for your times, a rich store of salvation and wisdom and knowledge; 
the fear of the Lord is the key to this treasure.
Isaiah 33:6





Monday, May 8, 2023

The Catchphrase of Living with Purpose

That's my question! 
Purpose: Knowing the reason for which something is done or created or for which something exists. In the grand scheme of things knowing ones purpose, enables one to look outward.  Not knowing ones purpose, causes an inward destructive thinking, the downward spiral we all fall imprisoned to.  Catchphrase: A small group of words that are combined in a special way, and is often repeated so that it becomes connected with the identity of a particular person or item.  Understanding my catchphrase helps me to live with purpose! 

If you've spent anytime in the last 3 weeks listening to my ramblings, you've heard me ask, "What do you think your purpose is/was?" Said question has become a space filler for me.  Moments when frustrations want to erupt volcanically, misunderstandings in relationships, restless minds that won't rest at 2:30 a.m., shoulders so tense you could build a house on their foundation, pain and sickness, flights canceled, roads detoured, schedules altered ... I ask, "what do you think is/was your purpose in those moments?" 

Having a catchphrase that exemplifies the reason for my existence, should enable me to see my purpose when I find myself involved in the aforementioned situations - the menial tasks of life. For example, if my specific purpose is to live out the hope of Jesus by speaking His truth, no matter what situation is happening around me, this catchphrase should draw my focus (and others) to Jesus. Simple right?  Do I truly believe that He created me to live out the hope of Jesus by speaking His truth? If so, it should hold great place value in my interactions and reactions! 

Dear Ones, it's not just knowing ones purpose in the big picture (a.k.a. the titles we hold) ... Hospitality coordinator, Sender of disciples to the nations, Raiser of mighty men, Mentor and discipler of women ... it's also asking and knowing my purpose in the simplicity of the menial tasks.  How do I live out the hope of Jesus by speaking His truth while ... taking down the cobwebs, cleaning up the kitchen, caring for the sick, redirecting an obstinate child, refocusing the drifting gaze, encouraging the uncertain, patiently listening to the ridiculous excuse, sharing life at the meat counter, and _____________, fill in your blank.  Quite simply, it's keeping in check that the words of my mouth and meditations of my heart are pleasing to Him.  It's asking, believing and knowing my purpose (the grand and menial) so that my gaze is fixed on my Solid Foundation, not the situation.  

I may never understand the purpose of pain, heartache, devastating loss, sickness, insomnia. altered plans etc. However as my catchphrase directs my gaze to the Planner of the purpose, I can understand my purpose in each situation. It's the simplicity of living out Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord (know your purpose), lean not on your own understanding (don't try to figure it out), acknowledge Him (catchphrase), and He will sustain you. Grasping the practicing the simplicity of this will inevitably lead to purposeful living.

What's your purpose? ... Redirecting catchphrase ... Living with purpose 

Life on the Mountain
An abundance to celebrate, birthdays, babies, graduations, decisions made, God's hand of favor!  Proud parent moment listening to Joseph's Capstone speech. God's faithfulness in giving us wisdom.  Thankful for Dr. Carla's wisdom (and friendship) in treating Adam after a long week of sickness. Precious hours of communication time with our boys living in other countries.  Date with dad and porch time to hear the hearts of those under our roof.  Moments of rest as we plan and wait for the chaos to come!  Creating a catchphrase, believing our purpose and fleshing it out through the mundane tasks of life. 

Praises
Healing for Adam
Micah's team redirecting their gaze
Healthy friendships for boys
Future direction
The gift of growth from a year ago
Understanding Spanish in critical moments
Knowing our purpose

Prayers
Joseph navigating through finals week
Micah direction for the future
Jedidiah future school options
Adam missing his brothers
Hoffert/Peterson families, Emily, Robyn, Eli, would you join us in prayer for these friends who are walking through unbearable changes in life?
To live with purpose through the grand and menial tasks

Date with Dad AND the return of wooden spoons ...
What is the purpose of cardboard spoons with ice cream?!
Teaching Alpha course ... it may have been 100 degrees!
Sticky buns to celebrate this one ...
sharing life and food with staff!
Shoo fly pie in CR? Yup, thanks to Grammie bringing Molasses to CR!
My turn for a 'small' trim! ...
50 needed a fresh look!
Celebrating "Dia del Libro" - book day ...
A Greek god wearing avocado socks and a Pirate!
Wishing we could be present but oh so proud of this Mighty man
as he gave his Capstone speech with poise and clarity!
Could this be any more perfect? ... : ) 
Soccer Saturday action ...
I can still picture his mop of blond hair running around the field at 4 years old!
After a week of nausea/vomiting and a double ear infection ...
This brave one got an IV and 'butt shots' from mom!
Philemon 1:7
Your love has given me great joy and encouragement,
because you, have refreshed the hearts of the Lord's people.

Live with purpose as you refresh the hearts of those the Lord
places in front of you!